Do you need clitoral simulation to orgasm

I’m going through a divorce and one of the reasons was a dead bedroom. I will admit the sex was lacking and there were several issues but one keeps circling in my head. He mentioned that it didn’t make him feel great that I needed clitoral stimulation to get off. As far as I know an overwhelming majority of women can’t get off without it but he claims none of his previous partners needed it. Am I crazy? Has he been lied to all this time?