My vegan friend is demanding MY whole wedding to be vegan otherwise they (couple M35 F30) aint gonna attend

Have anyone else stumbled across this? Im thinking about not reply at all (he sent me a long text on messenger) but at the same time i want to ask him who the f he think he is.

Edit/Update: I answered this morning with "You made your point, ill write you off the invite list" Which he replied about and hour after : "We would glady have come if you hade decided to change the menu and served a non-suffering meal" Even if he didnt demanded anything he constantly over the years trying to shame me, my friends and others into thinking he is morally superior to everyone else.

A lot of you have written that i am a liar or that i didnt reveal the whole story and im gonna try to give a long story short: I met this couple at the middle of 2021 at a party and we initially met and had some fun. Over the years, they made several comments about being vegan and how cruel me and my friends are. I know he have a good heart and i dont wanna throw people away just bc they have other opinions than me and/or the first thing they do.

Im gonna give u a few examples: We have been camping for 2 years straight. Every time we sit down to eat he complains to me and my friends for eating hot dogs, candy or everything that isnt vegan. He also refuses to camp at places he doesnt approve and have demands about camping sites and requesting things that we go 20 miles this or that way and i pick up his friends along the way.

2 years ago i tried have a new years party with 20 friends. Since everyones budget is different and everyone have different tasting i started a groupchat and asked everyone where and what we would be able to eat. He then proceeed to book a vegan restaurant for 150$ a person without asking anyone if they want to eat there or if they would enjoy the dinner. It ended with everyone but this couple eating at a tapas restaurant where they served vegan food but he declined since we others would be not eating vegan.
Ive tried to talk to him about being different and that i dont want to look down on people with different opinions than myself, but that requires other people to accept my views aswell. I thought i made myself clear. Apparently not

He asked if i could be his personal chauffeur the day my fiance graduated university and had a party at a real castle and when i told him i couldnt he said "but u could make it and be in time to the main course" (It would have required me to drive over 100 miles (16 european miles) one direction.

I really had my patience with this guy but this is it. And yes, it might be in a bit rage i wrote the text.