Suggest me places/activities to socialize as a guy in his mid-20s around Colombo

Hey everyone,

I could really use some advice on this. I'm in my mid-20s, working as a Software Engineer here in Colombo, and to be honest, life’s starting to feel a bit lonely. My job doesn't really give me the chance to meet new people since I mostly deal with computers and code all day. And at work, we’re not exactly chatty either—it’s all about the next sprint or fixing bugs.

I’ve been feeling the weight of loneliness lately and would love to meet new people. I’m especially hoping to meet someone I can build a genuine connection with (maybe even long-term if things click), but sliding into random inboxes or swiping endlessly on dating apps isn’t my vibe at all.

Apart from that, I want to make new friends and explore interests beyond my current (and honestly unhealthy) routine of coding like crazy and binge-watching movies or TV shows all night. I feel like these habits are sucking the life out of me, and I want to start doing things that are good for my body and mind.

Here’s the catch: I’m on a budget. I support my family, so I don’t have a lot of disposable income to spend on activities. So, the cheaper the better (about 25-35k per month maximum will be ok I guess).

Some quick facts about me to help narrow things down:

• I don’t drink or smoke, so bars and clubs are pretty much out of the picture.
• I’m an introvert, but I can be social when I feel comfortable in a group.

TL;DR: Feeling lonely as a mid-20s Software Engineer in Colombo. Looking for affordable ways to meet new people (friends or possibly a long-term partner) and explore healthier hobbies beyond coding and binge-watching. Don’t drink/smoke, so bars/clubs are out. Suggestions for places or activities are much appreciated!

With that said, I’d love your suggestions! Any specific places, activities, or events that you think could help me meet new people (or even spark some new hobbies) would be amazing.

Thanks in advance for your advice! 😊