DAE have trouble understanding gestures?

The only ones I can get consistently are wave, point, and sit down. For whatever reason "take this" is extremely challenging and "come here". Because...who? Me?

Feels "too autistic" or typical LSN communities but "not autistic enough" for spicy autism.

But yet I just don't understand what they are doing when someone hands me something. Every single time someone will hold something out for me to take and I just don't notice/understand. they have to go "Take this". Every single time. I don't get it.

Are they showing me something?

Do they want me to look?

Are you going to do something with it?

And then they start pushing it closer to me and I get the hint but I carefully do it. Confused. Rightfully I feel.

Anyone else?