Struggling between loving my family and realizing they are not nice people
As a young woman (25) who feels strongly about politics and social issues I am having a hard time feeling at ease with my parents since they support everything I hate. They tend to believe fake news and think they are right just because they are older (also, having a degree makes me entitled apparently). On top of that, after growing up I realized how toxic my home environment has always been - my parents cannot stand each other but will not divorce, there was always a lot of blaming and moral blackmailing, no talking about feelings and no apologies, conflicts were never dealt with upfront.
When it comes to my aunts, uncles and cousins, Facebook recently started showing me (without me doing basically anything) their political interests and the posts they comment on. I recently discovered they support really nasty people and leave mean and offensive comments under articles and discussions (things I cannot tolerate). To put it in a nutshell - I realized after growing up that my loving family is actually pretty nasty towards other people, though they continue to love and support me.
Consequence:
As for my parents I have to stay here because of the virus for at least a couple of months and this is taking a toll on my emotional well-being.
On top of that I am also having a terrible time coping with the idea that the rest of my family is not as nice as I thought they were and I cannot control the negative feelings towards them even if they love me.
In my culture family is of utmost importance and one cannot simply leave everything behind and start a new life - which I would not want to do anyways.
Have you experienced something similar? Would you mind sharing your opinion?
Thank you.
**TL;DR; : As a young adult I finally realized that my household is a toxic environment and my relatives can be very nasty and mean on social media despite being loving and benevolent towards me. How can I cope with loving them but despising their behavior and beliefs?**.