asking for advice

asking for advice

younger gcBrother wants to meet in person and go out for coffee, I am not comfortable meeting younger gcBrother in person without police presence or private security. I am also worried that nMom will show up and crash our meeting.

Long conflict and psychiatry issues between nMom and I going back years now.

I have been no contact with nMom for years now.

I am sure that younger gcBrother relays my facebook messages to nMom, everytime after I reply to his messages facebook, the next day, nMom shows up driving near my apartment, she doesn't know my address, I didn't give my address to her or any other family members, nMom watched me get on and off public transit to figure out approximately where I live). nMom and eDad live 1 hour away from the town that I live)

I am considering taking younger gc brother up on his offer to meet in person, but not for coffee,

either with police presence, private security,

or at the office of the mental health educator who is assigned to my case.

How do I go about implementing police presence or private security?

I am not comfortable meeting younger gc Brother alone.

I do want to meet him one time, on my terms, just to get it over with.

I don't want nMom showing up.

What are my other/alternative options?