Is it true that you should care about getting relationship only after you have established "social circle" and "hobbies"?

I personally neither have a social circle nor hobbies. But it's not like I don't do anything with my life i.e. I go to work every day. I'm sort of a workaholic. I just don't care about having social circle or hobbies involving other people, since I don't like to get close or vulnerable with other people, as it's an unnecessary risk.

Also, I mostly don't relate to other people and most people don't relate to me either. I'm just way too weird and reserved to fit in with them.

In my free time (Which is quite less), I just listen to music and play video games, and also mostly just contemplate and feel too much about things. I occasionally interact in apps like Reddit.

Should I just become social and force myself to have hobbies with others, if I want to get to the next stages of life such as relationship, marriage, kids, etc? Or is that not a necessity and I can still get to the next stages without having "social life" and "hobbies"?