Irritable hypomanic folks - what the f worked to calm you down (med or habit)

I rarely get euphoria. Mostly become filled with rage, spending, and fast moving when I’m manic.

Lamotrigine killed my depression but now I’m just a rage puddle all the time, bouncing between normal, hypomanic, and rapid cycling.

I’m starting Rexulti (like abilify) but has not helped so far (it’s early, has been two weeks).