When will guys start hitting on me??

I'm sorry, this is such a dumb question and I know there's not really an "answer".

But recently I discovered that I may not exactly be a lesbian, I may be a little bit more bisexual than I thought. A guy looked at me a couple of times and my brain and body went in to female arousal meltdown, which was quite surprising to me.

Anyway, I'm kind of in that uncanny valley between visibly trans and passing - there are occasions when I'm correctly gendered, I've had men hold the door open for me, and there are times when I'm totally visibly trans and get stares. I am however at the point where I haven't been sir'ed in over a month.

Basically, I'm ready to start exploring my possible attraction to men, and I've heard that women get hit on all the time, and that hasn't started happening to me yet... when will it start happening?? Is there anything I can do to kick-start the process? Do you have stories you can share?