potential yellow flags (?)
Background info: I matched with a girl on Tinder last night and we’ve been talking quite a bit since. She is definitely very eagerly interested and is coming on rather strongly, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing- I swiped right on her for a reason. But I’m wondering if any flags are being raised?
One of the first things she told me was that she hasn’t had much luck finding someone, and she told me a story about how she sent flowers to a girl and on the same day the flowers were supposed to be delivered, the girl blocked her. She also keeps reiterating how she’s a “lover girl” and how no one has appreciated her yet until me. Don’t get me wrong, I do genuinely like this girl and see potential, but the fact that she is pushing for things to progress THIS quickly when we’ve only been talking for about 18 hours is making me slightly uneasy. I don’t know if it’s just a me thing, because I haven’t had much experience either, so maybe this is just a new feeling for me that I don’t know how to respond to? I can’t decide if it’s that, or if she’s showing signs that she’s insecure/immature.
Need some outside perspectives!