Damon is the worst brother in TV
I will never understand why people defend him because he was a terrible brother to Stefan, arguably the worst ever in TV.
First of all, Stefan turning Damon was because he was gonna die, he did it to save Damon but Damon being the awufl person he did repaid him by making his life hell until the recent events. Who on earth does that? A good brother actually wants the best for his brother, not to make them suffer but Damon wanted to.
He also killed his best friend, a good brother wouldn't do that in a million years. If Damon was a decent brother he would know how much that would hurt Stefan but he still didn't do shit because he doesn't give a shit about Stefan
And then is the fact that Damon literally constantly tried to get Elena to like him despite knowing how much Stefan loved her until he eventually got what he wanted and the craziest thing is he didn't even apologize to Stefan a single time for ruining his life. A good brother would've never done that, he would've just accepted that he was his brother's girl and moved with someone else.
Just to make a comparison look how Sam and Dean in Superntural look up where they constantly put each other first and never give up on them. I could never see them pulling the stunts Damon did because they actually care about each other.