How to handle the matrimonial rejections based on jaadhagam?

My parents are looking for girl for my marriage.. So we looking through matrimony. I really liked few profiles and passed to my parents and they spoke with girls parents and said the girls parents rejected because of jaadhagam 😑. Avanga unmaiya jaadhagam porundhala nu reject pannangala Illa Vera reason ah nu therla.. I'm somewhat good looking decent guy and earning average indians dream salary.. But jaadhagam plays basketball in many life 😒.. Innum yennalam panna kaathurukkangalo.. So my question is how do or did you handle it.? Experienced guys leave your cmts..