“More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisible

When men approach women, at least when they used to, the attention gets roughly spread in a bell curve. I witnessed this numerous times bartending: a group of single women vacationed; one would be thin and tall, the other short and chubby, another tanned , the third was ginger and deathly pale — all these types had their respective admirers.

a completely different picture was when women would try to approach a guy from a group of men on a nights out it was always the the tall, athletically built or sporty man regardless of how the girl herself looked like.

This is why I don’t understand all the people hoping and cheering for a change in our courting culture (“more women should make the first move”) makes any sense, if anything the average guy would discover he is no ones type.