What do you consider on someone’s character if they are really mean to you after a breakup but you did stay sweet to them even if you tolerated things you didn’t appreciate at all ?

Like even when they say they will be there for you still etc always have them to talk too. it’s all a lie. I mean I tolerated and done a lot for someone who wasn’t very appreciative on me stating there wasn’t anything in this relationship worth something but holding him back and he gave me and the relationship several chances :/ I honored my issues but he first hated my parents for asking him to leave out of my house, then hated me just a lot like full on kinda insulted me in a way. I mean both of either parents and family didn’t like one another cause of the way they handle things differently. I still tolerated it still: