If you had a spouse who was cheating would you wanna know?

There’s not a lot of room in the title I’ll explain it better here. If you had a perfect life pets, kids, love idk whatever. You were happy. But your spouse is cheating on you. Would you want to know or just continue to be happy? What would change your answer?

For instance does the amount of times the spouse cheated matter? Does it matter if they were intoxicated? Does it matter if they were remorseful? Does it matter if you won’t be happy or as happy afterwards?