How are you ladies surviving off a 1 person income?

I’m stressing out between bills, 2 kids (3 year old and 9 month old), pets.. all on my husband’s income. He doesn’t make enough, but makes enough not to qualify for childcare subsidy, food stamps.i just signed up for paramedic school because if I just started working as an emt, that money would just all go straight to childcare

I’m mainly just venting at point, because I’m currently taking ADHD meds that I hate to kill my appetite so my kids have food. It shouldn’t have to be this way🙃