Just a little update

So I didn’t end up texting my MIL after the restaurant incident. She’s text a few times since then but I haven’t been responding (in group message & DH responded so no need for me to). But me and DH decided we’re waiting a full month to visit w them again because she pushed boundaries. We usually try to only see them once a month anyway but it always turns into about every 2-3 weeks.

Buttt so because we haven’t seen them for 2 weeks (which is NORMAL we just have to literally fight them off each month) & she knows she acted crazy at the restaurant so she thinks we’re mad at her. So, she texted me at 11:49 and said “Happy Saturday! Are you home? I wanted to drop off a little happy for you…” and I can’t see the rest. She then called DH at 11:51 and he didn’t answer so she texted him at 11:52 and asked if we’re home and she has a happy for me. & that she won’t stay she’s just gonna stop by and drop it off. It’s not my birthday or anything like that, she’s just going to try and drop off flowers so she can get her way and see LO and not apologize and pretend like nothing happened! But we’re just not responding lol and if she knocks on the door we’re not answering.

Surprisingly after all the crazy thing she’s done this is actually only the second or third time she’s tried to “pop in” last minute (but every time she’s tried she always has to drop something off) but this one will neevvver happen. I’ve let a lot slide but you will not show up to my house unannounced and think you’re gonna come in. I never have a bra on at home and the woman gives me heart palpitations for PLANNED visits so i’m pretty sure i’d have a heart attack.

But it’s so incredibly rude and wild to me that someone thinks it’s okay to bribe/ make me feel bad so she can pop in and get her way and see LO. She thinks we’re avoiding her so instead of using your words and apologizing, or maybe giving us space, she’s trying to invite herself over to bring me a happy & act like that’s normal & like nothing happened so she can see LO. So weird.