Is being too big a problem?

Hey everyone. I’m 20 and a virgin. I was in a serious LDR for like 2.5 years, so ig that explains me not having any penetrative sex yet. Though my ex thought it is too big for her, even though she wasn’t a virgin as she was 4 years older to me. I’m like 8 inches long and more than 6 in girth. I know it’s big, but is it too big that it would cause problems in my sex life in the future?