Painful sex ):

Quick and simple. When my boyfriend and I have sex we use a lot of lube because I just personally struggle with getting wet. After sex or even during , no matter how much lube we use my vaginal entrance swells up like a balloon. I get really worried it’s something bad but by morning it goes back to normal. During sex it’s painful almost like rug burn and I can’t enjoy it. It’s rare when me and my boyfriend have sex since my labido is so low and we’re busy but this ruins it for me. Does anyone have experience with this or know what I can do to quell it?