How to make Pregnancy & Birth Equitable?

I (31F) spent the majority of my life, since middle school, wanting to be child free by choice for a variety of reasons. I had no desire to have children up until about 1 year ago when I became a fence sitter after I started dating my current partner (33M). His only dealbreaker is that he wants kids. He has wanted them since he himself was a child and has been actively working to be able to support a family since he graduated high school. When we started dating we both knew we were on opposite sides of the fence but we didn't know how far opposite we were. For the past 6 months we have been engaged in an ongoing conversation about which path is right for us, or if we can even come to an agreement.

One of the questions that I keep getting stuck on is how to make birth and pregnancy equitable since he has a strong desire for a biological child. As a female person, I would be losing 9 months of my life to pregnancy, 12+ (assumed) months to recovery, risking my life and health, risking my job due to taking maternity leave, etc. The above is if everything goes to plan and something doesn't go horribly wrong. I feel like I am getting saddled with 100% of the risk. Surprisingly, despite being an incredibly smart and empathetic person the response I keep getting is that unfortunately this boils down to biology and that since he doesn't have a uterus this will never be truly equitable.

Has anyone developed a path that worked for them to make this risk feel equitable between genders? How have some of you explained this risk/lack of equitability to your partner to help them better understand your side of this convo?

EDIT: Thank you to everyone who has commented. I wanted to confirm that I 100% know that since he does not have a uterus he will not be able to biologically be equitable with me . Lol I was looking for non-biological ways that people have found to make this more equitable (or maybe the proper term is fair as some people have used in the comments). I also am unwilling to put another woman through the same risks which is why I had already taken surogacy off the table. I have some health issues that make me more concerned about this being high risk than the average woman though which leads to the strong wording.