Will it be okay?

FTM and learning a lot about this topic. I can definitely say that I will not allow a needle into my baby. However, I’m conflicted or maybe just not well informed yet? TDAP. I’ve read the side effects for babies… if I were to get it, anyone experienced side effects on the mother’s side or even baby side after? I hear people saying if Mom gets the shot, she’ll “protect” the baby through her. I just want us both protected even if that may mean no shot for me. Please give me grace…. this is all new to me. I appreciate the discussion!