28 M in an abusive marriage.

My wife and I got married in March 2024 after a six-year relationship, overcoming significant challenges like financial struggles, family health issues (including donating part of my liver for my dad’s cancer), and years of waiting. However, just a month into our marriage, things took a dark turn.

During an argument over a canceled trip, she physically and verbally abused me, which shocked me deeply. Since then, the abuse has become a pattern, triggered by minor disagreements. In one instance, she hit me while I was driving on a mountain road, putting both of us in danger. She’s also threatened to leave at night, screamed for help in public to make it seem like I was harming her, and frequently brought up divorce during fights.

Her family denies the abuse and called me a liar, leaving me feeling unsupported. I’ve been contemplating divorce for months and even took steps toward it. But now, her family and she are asking for another chance, promising change.

I’m conflicted—part of me wants to give her one last opportunity, but another part fears that the abuse will continue, leaving me trapped again.

Edit: We have been seperated for the past 2 months now.