What are some of your icks when it comes to dating someone?

I absolutely hate having to be on facetime with someone i'm dating because, after work and gym on a daily, I really do feel like I want to wind down and having to be on facetime just makes me feel uncomfortable, like I have to put on a performance after a long day.

I had a guy in the past who wanted to facetime until one person wanted to go to bed. And I have a naturally very low social battery I couldn't keep up with having to put on a performance. This was a dealbreaker for him because he was very insecure now that I look back and when I told him I want to FT only maybe once a week but we can text, he took offense to it