Really trying to like this game

How do you all get past the clunkyness of this game? I’m coming from dayz on pc/xbox and playing reforger on Xbox and it’s just so unrefined. Im getting stuck in menus, black screening unless im in the start menu, coms not working correctly the list goes on. I really want to like this game because it looks amazing and the fun options are thousands of times better than dayz but every day I run into a new issue. I have 20 hours into the game and have maybe 2 actually playing it and having fun