How to get more fruleity

I only know either archetypical white collar shirt IHateMyWife straight people or two instances of "crop top showing belly + booty pants + thigh highs" LGBTQ people. What can I do to look more fruity without goig to either extreme and how to break the family enforced straight man behaviour rules. It's killing me I can't even honrypost anonymously out of taught shame and having no idea how to be a slutty-yet-dresscode-abiding office twink